Family

“It doesn’t matter whether you come in first, in the middle of the pack, or last.  You can say, ‘I have finished.’

 There is a lot of satisfaction in that.” ~ Fred Lebow

 

Woke early cheerleading myself; only 3 to go.  Little bounce day-over-day.  Legs stopped moving day prior – think ‘lead legs‘ the new norm.  No real recovery.  Lack of sleep taken its toll.  Trained for ‘miles‘ & throwing multi-day distance.  Never foresaw sleep deprivation.  Mind fuzzy/cloudy, nothing’s ever crisp.  Reality/dream states blurred.  And emotional.  Even at Christmas, my family… we’re not huggers.  Certainly not weepers.

Suck it up buttercup, it’s Race day 6 – and today, this day I’m running 26.2 in the Red, White & Blue 🇺🇸

Sunday.  BIGGEST race field of all 8.  Hundreds of participants.  Flat course & NYC confidence.  Crazy fast field.  End of Lap 1: Ash & Tom.  Taste of HOME, my Colorado FAMILY.  Lap later, had it settled in my head.  I got nothing to prove.  I’ve got folks who love me.  I’ve been to Chile, marathon’d in Antarctica.  Nothing left in the legs, spirit dinged.  Finish the Half & heading HOME.  5 continents in 5 days.  I can live with that.

Lap 2, no Ash.  Text’d to meet at the tennis courts.  It’s just ahead; they were geocaching.  Got it!  Thankful they weren’t hanging idle while I’m slow-slogging ‘round Long Island.  New York State not… ‘the City’.

Ahead on the right.  There they are.  Smile.  Short wave.

Left.  Look LEFT.  Tunnel Hill mirage.  So weird.  Same headband, same hydration vest.  Smiling, laughing.  Talking.  No, it’s REAL.  Half-a-country away from her St. Louis home.  She’s HERE.  HOW?

Long embrace.  TEARS.  No words.  Sis – in Garden City, New York ❤️

And Ash.  And Tom.  And my in-law bro, Paul.

They’re all here.

Run, walk, crawl but finish.  I can do this.  Triple 8 FINISH.

 

 

NY Sibling SURPRISE

 

 

 

 

 

new Nets cap

Arkansas family, Connecticut family, Colorado family.

FAMILY.  It’s the secret glue that makes me tick.  It’s the well I go to over & over.  The flood of balloons Ash packed for my 50th.  Hump Day phone gifs from my Bro.  Sis who travelled to Ireland to celebrate (& run) marathon #100.  Mom who daily shines a light.  Filimin lamp/orange & family’s spiritual warrior.

Folks I TREASURE and draw Mile 22 strength 😊

Manchester – DC – Chicago – Denver

Busy Christmas morning… but it all worked out.  Ash & Tom’s home 2:30 COLORADO time.

Comfort food Christmas.  LOVE, LOVED.  Homemade chicken pie.  ‘Gallon-size Ziploc of CHEESE’ mac n’ cheese.  AWESOME double/triple helping-size meal.  (Diet starts tomorrow.)

Year’s gift giving?  Southwest funds & new/improved Garmin for Ash & Tom (future 2020 Seattle/Portland adventures).  Pup’s first doggie sweater for Rowan O’Roark.  Plush toy for grandpup Marty.

And Dad?  Christmas Coupons.

Homemade meals (with all the fixin’s) & 2 airport drop-off/pick-ups.  PERFECT for the guy who has everything.  They’re right ya know.  My life IS full.  I want for nothing.

Merry Christmas to the BESTEST family!  I HEART y’all ❤️

 

 

 

Coventry, Connecticut

Horse barns, covered bridges, Yankee accents.  Traditional Christmas.

All my must-see seasonal films are set in New England.  ‘It’s a Wonderful Life’, ‘Christmas in Connecticut’, ‘Bishop’s Wife’, ‘White Christmas’, ‘Holiday Inn’.

And… emergency appendectomies.  Michaela in-n-out of Hartford Hospital within 48 hours; showered/seated & ugly sweater-dressed for Christmas gifting.  Whew!

Whole lotta holidaying.  There always is.  Living room, a Christmas paper explosion.  We’re BIG gift givers, our family.  Double batch of Jill’s signature stuffing, sweet potato casserole.  Mashed potatoes, gravy.  Turkey AND ham.   Big gifters and big eaters 😊

Late dinner invite with old & new friends.  Bonus holidaying 2 ½ hours away.  Lotta laughs.  Even bigger accents.  Folks outside Boston need scrolling subtitles.  LOL>

TWO of my must-see flics in Stephen’s in-home theatre.  Games & gifting with Sheila, Dan & Ashley.  Christmas Eve in New Hampshire.  It really IS a wonderful life.

Holiday full-circle.  Ash, Tom & Ro Ro.  Colorado Christmas tomorrow 🎄🎁 🐕

 

 

Connecticut Christmas

 

XMas Movie Marathon